The 5 Second Rule (2017) by Mel Robbins explains how to overcome self-doubt and live a more fulfilling life by using a simple tool known as the 5 Second Rule. This tool helps people learn to take action in any situation and change their lives for the better. Practicing the rule breaks crippling, destructive habits and builds confidence. Offering examples from the fields of neuroscience and developmental psychology, Robbins demonstrates how the 5 Second Rule is grounded in science and shares many stories of people who have benefited from it.
The 5 Second Rule can use in a wide variety of circumstances. It can help people overcome most any type of challenge, whether it’s starting a long overdue project, advancing a career, improving a relationship, succeeding in a home business, going on a diet, or battling addiction. All people have a greatness inside that gives them the courage to make a change and accomplish important tasks. Feelings of nervousness, worry, anxiety, and fear, however, often prevent people from taking the steps necessary to fulfill their goals and dreams. The 5 Second Rule can teach individuals to avoid having those negative feelings and take charge of their lives.
The rule works as follows: when individuals have an instinct to take an action towards a goal or shrink from doing something that they know ought to be done, they should count backward, in their head, “5-4-3-2-1-GO.” At “GO,” they take action. The 5 Second Rule pushes people to do what they know at heart is the right thing. It prevents them from being distracted by worry and anxiety and keeps them focused on the moment.
By using the rule daily, individuals can gain courage and build confidence to fulfill personal goals. It is a powerful tool that, with a bit of effort, can bring about changes in life that are difficult to make.
The main key insights for this book is:
- The 5 Second Rule is a tool that engages the prefrontal cortex of the brain. It builds confidence by pushing people to change specific behaviors or initiate action.
- The human brain uses various methods to stop a person from making a change because action involves doing things that are different, unpredictable, or frightening.
- The 5 Second Rule changes behavior almost immediately by demanding an action. Changing behaviors builds confidence.
- The 5 Second Rule is a powerful tool to fight against procrastination.
- Thinking about making good health decisions is never enough. It is important to be assertive and make changes.
- Worry is a habit ingrained in childhood. Learning to break the habit of worrying by using the 5 Second Rule promotes positive thinking.
- Feelings of love for someone sometimes trigger worry. The 5 Second Rule can help control this worry.
- One way to overcome anxiety is to rename it as excitement.